depressed ,down and ready to give up trying... :'(

By Jadey

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• Erin Froehlich

  I'm sorry you're feeling that way, Jade. :( If you need someone to talk to about it though, this is a safe place. I can't claim to have any idea what you're dealing with or exactly how you're feeling, but I think a most of us can relate. Don't give up! Be strong and keep fighting, Jade. :)
  Commented on HelloLife February 09 at 8:14 am

• Laura Hogg

  Jade, like Erin said, this is a safe place. I'm not sure exactly what you're going through, but I hope you come through it okay! Hang in there and we'll be cheering you on :)
  Commented on HelloLife February 09 at 3:59 pm

• Jadey

  Im just unbelievably fed up! thanks guys im new here as u can probable see i did post the problem and it would have taken years to read also i was 2 ashamed to post it for much longer then the all of 10mins it took to find out how to delete it from my blog.... with all the feeling and the emotions it just got long winded! an there aint really a short tail to it.... and in the title when i say give up i dont mean like give up and die i mean give up trying.... for something that i just cannot do. and in 23 years iv given up on things but i never thort this would be one of them but this is just bringing me and another person close to me more and more heart ache. thank you for replying to the very brief "confused" blog i didn't really expect anyone to reply. xoxo
  Commented on HelloLife February 10 at 10:14 pm

• Erin Froehlich

  Well, like we said, there's no judgement here. Feel free to vent! Trust me - there are many, MANY times I've just felt like just giving up.
  
  College - omg, I was so completely overwhelmed. I had one project in particular that I broke down and cried about much more than I'd like to admit to. It was one that was normally handled by a group of people, some groups had 5 people, and was typically more of and edit than a creation, but I chose to go it alone and write an 80 page marketing plan from scratch by myself without any experience doing. I managed it, but man... if I were any less stubborn, I'm not sure I would have. And there are other instances. I've dealt with pretty serious depression, the kind that sucks all motivation out of you. I dropped out of college for a semester, I did give up because I just couldn't deal with it. I barely had the will to get out of bed. At the time it was really hard to imagine I would ever feel or get better, but I do and I am.
  
  That's the main thing you have to keep in mind - life is always changing. No matter how painful, the way you feel now is not the way you will always feel. In the mean time though, if you want to talk about it, I think it does help to get it out.
  Commented on HelloLife February 13 at 9:31 am

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